Elder abuse is defined as an intentional or negligent action that causes harm or creates a serious risk of harm to an older adult. The most common form of elder abuse is neglect, followed by physical abuse, then financial exploitation. Risk factors include dementia, mental health, and substance abuse issues (in both abusers and victims). Isolation increases the risk. Elder abuse can happen anywhere – in the home, in nursing homes or other facilities – and among all socio-economic groups, cultures, and races.

If your parent seems unusually angry, fearful, anxious, nervous or depressed, if they startle easily, avoid eye contact, or become suddenly apathetic or withdrawn, and these symptoms are new or rapidly worsening, keep your eyes open to see what might be behind these feelings. Here are some signs and symptoms of elder abuse:

According to the National Center on Elder Abuse, elder financial abuse is the illegal taking, misuse, or concealment of funds, property, or assets of a vulnerable elder at risk for harm by another due to changes in physical functioning, mental functioning or both. Signs of financial abuse or exploitation include: lack of amenities the person could afford, “voluntarily” giving uncharacteristic gifts or reimbursements for care or companionship, the caregiver has control of the person’s money but doesn’t provide for their needs.

If you suspect elder abuse is happening report it to your state authorities at the website listed below.